“Treat everyone with kindness even those who keep stabbing your back not because they are nice but because you are. =))”
I read this quote as I head to work this morning. Being stuck in the traffic gave me time to contemplate about the said quote.
It is easy to like the people who are good to you but it is truly a challenge to be kind to those who stab you at the back. I have my share of heartaches on those kinds of people.
There was a time when I found out that a lady whom I treated as my best friend was saying negative things about me behind my back – statements that malign and defame my reputation. It is painful – really painful. I am just thankful that I have ‘real friends’ who opened my eyes about it. At first I was in a state of denial but proofs were seen and evidences are evident. I would like to ask her about it and hear her side but I don’t have the ability to do that because she stops communicating with me. I had to cry my heart out to ease the pain. I cried to God like a little girl running to her parents after being wounded and bruised. I let myself feel the pain and then I detached and live my life again, now, as a better person.
Some of my friends who knew about the incident asked me, “Are you not angry at her? Will you not say any negative things about her?” I told them that I don’t feel any anger towards her. Yes, I was hurt by what she did but that is not a reason for me to be angry. I don’t want to say anything that would hurt her because she is my friend. Someday, we might see each other again and when that happens I want to be able to look at her straight in the eyes with clear conscience. I don’t want to say anything hurtful. I want to be a friend to her.
Each of us might have a story to tell regarding this matter. Each of us might have our share of pains. Let us not repay evil for evil rather let us overcome evil by doing good.